Episode #36: Redefining Masculinity: From Tough Guy to Devoted Husband

In this VERY unscripted, unfiltered, and heartfelt episode, my guest, Santino, dives deep into how he addressed his childhood wounds that fueled his "Tough Guy" persona and how he learned to embrace healthy masculine energy to become his most authentic self with the help of his wife.

In this episode, Santino redefines what it means to "be a man" making this a MUST-LISTEN episode for every couple who wants to show up better in their relationship with and for their significant other!

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Show Notes:

• 00:51 - The most unscripted intro and podcast EVER with Santino.
• 04:30 - Officially welcoming Santino after some playful shenanigans.
• 08:02 - Where his love for Hulk originated and how it shaped his approach to manhood.
• 15:25 - Santino’s childhood story and the creation of his “Tough Guy” persona.
• 22:55 - A rage blackout triggered by the absence of tortillas.
• 26:00 - The impactful comment from a priest that challenged Santino's ego.
• 30:45 - How Santino’s wife created a safe space for him to be his true self.
• 32:06 - The effects of constant moving and childhood bullying on Santino.
• 35:50 - How Santino nurtures a safe environment for his wife’s healthy submission.
• 42:25 - Insights on what women truly desire from their husbands.
• 49:49 - Breaking free from painkiller dependency with the support of his wife.
• 55:09 - The distinction between "dying for your wife" and "suffering for her."
• 1:04:09 - Why Santino’s “Man Card” might be revoked.
• 1:13:30 - Santino’s wishes for men and confronting his hardest emotion.
• 1:16:43 - Santino’s thoughts on what makes the best sex.
• 1:21:26 - How boundaries express what you need to be loved.
• 1:26:55 - Santino’s “Best Vacation Rule” for reconnecting with his wife.

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